Anger and hatred towards an issue can self-destructive. We all have come into this world to spread love and brotherhood, but at times we tend to over-react to a situation. The once friendly Andhra neighbors are spreading hatred on Telangana.
Here are five tips for all my friends in Andhra to overcome this anger and hatred:
Here are five tips for all my friends in Andhra to overcome this anger and hatred:
- Help any two poorest of the poor people in Telangana that you find today. It need not be monetary help. Try to help them with whatever is possible with you.
- Remember the best time you spent with any of your friends who hails from Telangana. Remember the help he/she offered. If you never had a friend from Telangana, remember of any road-side incidents which involved a person from Telangana origin helping you with directions.
- Find a friend - a die-hard fan of Telangana, and discuss your concerns with him/her. Do not argue. But share your worries. It helps when you vent it out in a composed manner. Remember that you may not get a solution or you may not impose what you want. At the end of the discussion, whether you win an argument or lose it, you will feel happy that your Telangana friend heard it.
- Within your limited ability, think about the problems of the poorest of the poor people in Andhra and list out what best you can do on your own, however little it is, to solve the problems that you identified. Make an action plan, shoot it out to the leaders in the Andhra.
- The final tip to control your anger is to know this fact: Presence of Disagreement is not Absence of Love. This is the most important point that you need to understand. We may have disagreements, differences but it does not mean that people from Telangana does not love people from Andhra. We love as much as we did in the past. Likewise, you may disagree but you should not stop loving us. The moment you understand this, you will stop have feelings of hatred towards the formation for Telangana.
In conclusion, I want to remind the readers that today, 9th August 2013, is observed as United Nations International Day of World's Indigenous Peoples. On this occasion, I greet each of my brothers and sisters in Andhra and Telangana region to observe peace, tranquility, brotherhood and respect the sentiments, cultures, traditions, beliefs of Indigenous people - people where they think they belong to.

